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Think carefully about inviting us back after a first date – Yes, we might well ask you but that doesn’t necessarily mean we want you to say yes.A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.

Retain a bit of mystery and avoid sending him a friend request until you’ve got to know each other better. Pay attention to the introductions – We guys are extremely territorial (even though we may not know it) and once we’ve come to the conclusion that this is the woman we want, we’ll start saying things like “This is my girlfriend, Sarah”.Once he has started calling you his girlfriend, babe, woman, or even his other half, he won’t stop. Figuring out what is going on in a guy’s mind in the first few weeks of dating would really help a woman feel more assured, knowing that she is in control of the situation.Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.I could've written three novels, started a business, and hiked the Appalachian Trail with all the wasted time and energy.

It's too late for me, but maybe you can learn from what I wish I knew when I was single.

Don’t call him everyday – It may from time to time seem as though the male half of the population hasn’t fully grasped the concept of staying in touch but trust me we know how to call you when you haven’t called us.

If you call constantly to “just check in” then the chances are he’ll feel smothered within a week and will lose interest or just assume you are a bit desperate.

Do your own thing – Never make us the centre of your world.

Men love doing their own thing, and they love a woman who does her own thing even more.

If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.