We all get a bit reflective after a guy tells us he doesn’t want to see us again. We thought it went really well, and we literally can’t understand why we doesn’t want to us again. For some reason or another, we’re attracted to them like magnets! Dating mistake 1: Revealing Your Feelings Too Early When we haven’t dated a guy for a while and all of a sudden someone is showing us some attention, it’s way too easy to get carried away.
If you exist on planet Earth, are over the age of 13 and have a gender, you’re probably familiar with this question: Why do girls like jerks?
Textbook definition of “jerk”: a guy who leads a girl to believe that he cares about her without actually caring about her. I’ll be honest, I used to like jerks; it’s taken a few weird experiences to learn my lesson. In my experience, jerks are stupid, self-centered and overall awful people who will use their looks and charm for as long as they can to get girls.
It may seem like we like jerks, but in the end, it’s the nice guy that gets the good girl.
10 Dating Mistakes You Should Avoid Making We know how it is.
I distinctly remember having a conversation a few weeks ago with this smart, pretty girl whose boyfriend of two weeks was tall, muscular and had a notorious reputation as a player.
I asked her how she could be so interested in him in light of his dating history. She liked him because it made her feel special that he was awful to everyone — but sometimes not to her.
And that’s why good girls love bad boys: Every girl — particularly the bleeding heart type — wants to think she can fix the broken bad boy and be the one he falls for at last. Textbook definition of “nice guy”: a guy who shows care for the well-being of girls he’s interested in.
Truth: They regularly reside in the “friend zone.” Nice guys want to really get to know a girl, fall in love with her, treat her right.
And for that to happen, we have to be with someone who believes in us — who isn’t always threatening to leave us, who’s likely to be there for us when we need him.
We want someone who treats us with respect and someone we can trust.
Worse than that, though, is how a guy responds to such early declarations of feeling.