Online dating gives you a bit of an advantage in that you can strategically plan that first message so it hits home with a bit of a punch.
Unlike an everyday face to face meeting where the words just tumble from your mouth in no apparent order.
Complaining about how you are only doing online dating because you can’t find a date, how all your previous relationships have failed or that there are no good men/women left is also a bad path to take.
Try to stay positive and focus on your good points, this will have the added bonus of putting the reader in a positive mood too.
Surprisingly, though, come across as run of the mill and perhaps a bit boring.
So while you should avoid using netspeak too much, using slang or an unusual greeting is considered a great move.
Was it because you told them you like drinking wine on the sofa, or was it because you discovered you have a common hobby, interest or view that you wanted to talk to them about more? When writing your opening sentence, stay away from the standard but boring “Hi, I’m Lucy, I’m 35 and I live in London”.
It doesn’t say anything about you that the reader hasn’t already gleaned from your profile.The key to a good profile picture is on taken in a well lit environment, even better if you can take one outside or in somewhere more interesting that your grey bedroom or under the florescent lights in your office.Failing all of that, by far the most important thing is to smile.If possible, get a friend to read over your profile before you put it online.This will also help to identify any areas where what you’ve said is not clear or could be misunderstood.You could always spruce it up a bit and go with a foreign greeting, but make sure you know what it means otherwise you could come off looking like a bit of a Del boy.