because I know there are women reading this thinking, “Why should a woman do for this flirtatious disrespectful pig of a man? Here’s the deal – you’re asking me this question because you do not find his behavior acceptable. A guy always knows a woman’s limit is measured by how much she’s willing to tolerate.
And yet, you’ve been demonstrating to him that you’re OK with it. Women feel this instinctively and will usually try to put up a front, claiming that they won’t stand for his bad behavior and making empty threats.
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop flirting with other girls.
When you can accept him as he is, you start to show him a path towards filling that void.When you can recognize what he “gets” from his behavior and you can truly understand him as a man, you might not take his actions personally anymore.Do you know what’s at the core of why women put up with behavior they find unacceptable? The reality of it is that if you want to mentally and emotionally be in a place where you have any say in your relationship, you have to diminish your fear of loss.Let me shift your attention to the fact that you this guy.And now, a little over a year into the relationship you’re disappointed that he’s still the same guy… People do this all the time, but it doesn’t make it right or sane.
The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.You say that you give him everything he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally. you’re basically saying that you’re his perfect dream girl.Maybe what you meant is that you’re giving him everything *you think* he needs sexually, emotionally, etc. Oftentimes, we love other people in the way that we want to be loved – and while you make certain adjustments toward him since he’s a dude, it’s not safe to bet that you’re satisfying his every need…I mean, all of his sexual needs are completely met by you, right? And all of his emotional needs are met by you, so it can’t be that he enjoys the ego boost of feeling desired by a woman…My point in all this is that if you believe that you’re meeting all his needs, you will be blind to areas where the relationship needs to grow.But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.