My focus here is on the 80/20 principle applied to the push-pull dynamic. What I say here is NOT for absolute newbies, who don’t yet have their fundamentals down (body language, tonality, and basic inner game). A quickie definition of push-pull straight from the pen of Swingcat: We’ll be filling this out as we go along. While you can succeed using almost any combination of push and pull (e.g., 80% push-20% pull, 50% push-50% pull), This applies only if the following also hold: a.If you still don’t know what good BL&T looks, sounds, and feels like, check out The Social Man on You Tube for some videos on that. It’s for guys who want to know what it’s like to live in the top 10%, or higher, of men in this world. The man has good fundamentals (good body language, tonality, tight inner game and is hence non-needy, etc.).
It’s unexpected and incongruent with the kid’s image, and hence, kind of funny, and if done right, it’s admirable. Similarly, when a below average looking guy uses a lot of push cocky-funny, talking as if he’s too good for her and using humorous sarcasm, it’s attractive because the woman begins to wonder, “. It’s not funny anymore because his cockiness is expected and congruent with his image. For a guy like this to use cocky-funny, he has to really emphasize the humor and really cut down on the cocky part. himself acknowledged this in one of his newsletters: “If you’re a pretty good looking guy, you might turn down the cocky, and turn up the funny.Now imagine a 50 year old, sophisticated-looking man talking the same way. Women perceive good-looking guys who act cocky as MAJOR PLAYERS, and too much cocky too soon can backfire on you.” More accurately, this isn’t just true for guys who are good-looking.This small bit of fine-tuning can make it SO much easier to get a girl, and create much stronger, closer emotional connections.If you want to attract a woman faster and have her more powerfully attracted to you, the optimal mix for a man who already has his fundamentals down (his body language, tonality, and basic inner game) and is interacting with a confident and attractive woman is 80% pull, 20% push. But more accurately, the optimal combination depends on how good the man’s fundamentals are and how confident the woman is.Honestly, we’ve been using some of these for years and they’re all pretty great.
After closely observing naturals who are masters at rapid escalations, and after a lot of discussion about this with guys like Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks, who have really tight game, I’ve discovered a VERY important enhancement to the push-pull and cocky-funny concepts. I like it.” ” I like you and your laugh.” “It was a compliment. ” “Hate the game, not the player.” “Isn’t it boring, to be so virtuous? – So apologize.” “Fool me once, shame on you…” “Uuh, my bad.” “You’`re right. I do a lot of things I don’t have to do.” “Flattery will get you nowhere. “Superheroes don’t smoke.” “I don’t smoke, I go in for sport.” “- Do you smoke after sex? ” “With great penis comes great responsibility.” “Discouraging premarital sex is against my religion.” “It’s true, I am kind of retarded, but I am also kind of amazing.” “Don’t you sometimes wish you had two cocks? If you consider me divine.” “- And who do we say you are, my son? ;) ” ” I’m am too lazy to make my thumb work to write you a text. ” ” If a muscular not too uglynaked man leaves you indifferent, wonder about your sexual orientation.You should give yourself more credit.” “- You cleaned up pretty well yourself. I’m the devil in disguise.” “Well, I’ve had plenty of practice.” “- Congratulations. – Thank you.” In the doubt, it is the best answer to receive a compliment. “I’m better at being the bad guy anyway.” “I can tell you from experience, everyone loves a villain.” “You have my word, for all that’s worth.” “I’m the guy your mother warned you about. – Not unless you count hate sex.” “I love it when you talk dirty.” “- You’re sick. I don’t know why, just ask God.” “- What I don’t get is why she likes you. ” “I’ve just always been a multi-tasker.” “I’ve just always been a multi-tasker.” “-Are you a man who enjoys games? We’re a predatory species.” “You know what they say about drugs taking… Who are you and what have you done with my girlfriend? I am special, you are not.” “Leave a message and I might listen to it.” “- You’re like my brother – Well I hope you’re going to make yourself available for more missed childhood memories. Dare to be an optimist.” “You are going to sleep by knowing that you gave the best of yourself.” It is the most important. ” Just by writing these lines, I have imagined new retorts… ” ” – I can not come this evening finally sorry (flake) – There is nothing to be sorry about.Now let’s go back to my place so you can collect your prize.” “- If you want to leave, now is the time. All these openers have gotten responses for me personally and for many of my clients. If anybody has other openers that work well for them online, post them in the comments. I have 8 girlfriends.” “No, I’m still searching for my soulmate.” “- You are disgusting and I hate you! ” “- Isn’t there someone else you can try to seduce? – That is something to be afraid of.” “I don’t know if I trust you either. ” “I know you’re pretty and all, but it doesn’t give you the right to be an asshole! “Respect.” “I don’t know who your boyfriend is, but he’s not spanking you enough.” “Well if I have a passion it’s taking life and turning it into a series of crazy stories.” “I wish men could have children on their own, like seahorses!