But if you’re trying to get in your date’s head, making out won’t give you a ton of info.
Winter says a “normal” kiss will actually be your best barometer, because “the partner who doesn't want to startle you but wants to establish romance as the basis for your connection will opt for a meaningful, yet potent kiss on the lips,” adding that while making out can be hotter, “if your goal is a relationship, don't dismiss a normal kiss.“Still feeling confused about what that first date kiss meant?
It turns out you can actually learn a lot about your date and their intentions from that first smooch — if you know what to look for.So pucker up, girlfriend, because we’ve got some detective work to do.You might think that because kissing is not as big of a deal is it was back in the day it might not mean much, but according to Winter it actually can mean a variety of things.It can just be a formality that says, "OK, that's it.How does that bode for future relationship potential?
Unfortunately, according to Winter, there’s no real way to tell what your date’s intentions are during a make out — except for maybe that they are very attracted to you, but you won’t know from that alone if it’s real interest in you or just “sex for the sake of sex.” Hey, if that’s what you’re into, that’s totally fine.
Once a couple becomes comfortable with kissing, they often find that more intimate steps simply follow along naturally.
If you find your relationship faltering or turning into a roommate situation, refocus it with a kiss.
Even if you do not experience any lack of intimacy, kissing games can be a fun way for you and your significant other to show love for each other.
Once you have played a few games and understand how they work, you can create your own kissing adventures.
And the chemistry, oh yeah, that was definitely intense.