Dating nice guy but not attracted

When I was 15, a hobbit-like guy named John pursued me hardcore at summer camp. But as I got to know him more, I began to genuinely like him. The less conventionally attractive a guy is, the more likely he is to develop other areas and aspects of his personality because he can't rely solely on his #blessed looks.

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I just feel like – well, you know the debate we have in our heads, Should I kiss them or should I not? I don’t feel like reaching across and grabbing them, kissing them, and touching them.Despite those relationships not working out in the long run, they did end up being some of the most rewarding dating experiences I've had.And I've gotta say -- it DOES have something to do with their looks.But, every now and then, a couple pulls the switch off this genetic equilibrium.

And Now, I'm certainly not going to put myself into the same camp with the Julia Roberts and Padmas of the world...

So if you're a Bo Derek-solid 10, here are reasons why you should consider dating someone who's a Dudley Moore...

or someone at least marginally less attractive than you.

Most men’s skins are not thick enough to handle what they think is rejection, and it takes a lot for them to become open and vulnerable. You look at him and say this: “I’ve got to tell you, I think you’re absolutely amazing. Everything you’ve said and talked about are all the things any woman would really want to be a part of.

I love the way you speak, I love what you’re all about. So, I would love to be your friend and just support you, and help you find somebody absolutely amazing.

Akin to a beauty contest scorecard, a person's attractiveness is ranked from one to 10.