Work and home responsibilities suck a lot of time out of the day and if you’re not meeting the kinds of people you’d like to in your area, then it may be your only option for meeting likeminded people.
Everyone jumps the gun, telling you to personalize each message you send.
You follow their advice, only to realize that not only are people not responding to your messages, they’re not even opening them.
During my early days into the world of online dating, I did an experiment. That’s like having a hole in your pocket which continues to leak money right to your door step.
Keeping everything else equal, I wanted to confirm whether there was a correlation with income and the number of responses I received. Just digging deep into some code, whilst watching the latest episode of ‘Suits’. You shouldn’t be surprised if an unwanted visitor knocks on your door, or commits an act of theft in the night.
And when 80% of the messages are either, you can’t really blame them for not responding to most messages—even if you personalize your mails.
The fact of the matter is that women receive far too much “unwanted” attention.
Have you all noticed how many unattractive guys there are on all the dating sites? And why do these ugly guys always seem to be my match despite height, body type and hair type preferences. Also no one over 38 means that if you are in your 50s you are my parents age and don’t have a chance in hell with me. Who are all you bitches out there making these guys think that A. I don’t care if you have all the money in the world. I don’t know any girl that has ever thoroughly enjoyed a one night stand…which it WILL BE if you sleep with him on the first date no matter what he tells you. You can’t get off with a partner that doesn’t give two shits about you because he’s in it for himself. Take care of business on your own before ruining a family over your own insecurities.
Worse yet the somewhat decent guys, seem to want to get laid on the first date. If they have money that looks and hygiene don’t matter. If you are somewhat cute…I mean a 5 out of 10 you think you can hook up with me on date 1 and even try sleeping with me.? Girls I’m serious if we demand more from guys they will deliver or else be forced to pay for sex or get it from the strictly ugly girls. Nor will he leave his wife for you so take out your moral compass and get your dildo out.
What is the point crafting a well-thought out message if it doesn’t get opened, or worse, seen?
How to fix this: Spin it on its head and give the headline more importance.
You are better than that and don’t need to be validated by any guy that only wants sex or to make out. Take a girl out to a nice place, get her a drink and buy her something to eat and keep your shit in your pants.