Second, if you seem interested in his interests, he’ll want to bring you into his world and expose you to it.In relationship terms, men love sharing what they love with people and having those people love it too.
It’s actually a huge mistake to engage with him on that surface level and believe that’s who he really is.The reality is that he’s the man underneath “the mask.” He’s the man who feels emotions about the things that actually matter to him.Plus, I get to vicariously enjoy my favorite things as if I was seeing them again for the first time vicariously through her.The more intensely interested you are, the more he’ll want to share with you…You’ll see the evidence for it in what he does with his free time and what he gets excited about.
When you know what he loves, you want to start digging to really understand the emotions he has about that particular thing.More specifically, learn why he’s so passionate about them and what he finds interesting about them.This will accomplish the following things: First, he’ll be incredibly excited to tell you about his interests, loves, and passions because most people inherently want to share the things they love with people who are interested.Let’s say he loves going to concerts, or he’s really excited to go to a concert. ” When you ask men questions like this, they light up.You’d want to ask him things like, “Really, you’re going to a ::whoever the artist is:: concert? Do you like concerts in general, or is it just because you like that artist? Guys are kind of weird with emotions; we keep them contained for the majority of our life and interactions, but when a woman wants to explore what we’re excited by, what we love or what we’re passionate about, we can’t say enough!Some men love sports, other men couldn’t care less about sports. Some men love fitness, some love leisure, some love humor.