Eighty-three percent of the study's participants said they did not consider themselves to be cheating, and the remaining 17 percent deemed it a "weak" form of infidelity that was easily justifiable, she said.
Other research has shown, however, that most spouses feel as betrayed, angry and hurt by online infidelity as they would if skin-to-skin adultery had taken place, she said.
"I'm not going to cheat," wrote one married man.
It's playing whether its in a club or on a site, its still playing. The man you are dealing with is a player, it is that simple. If you want an exclusive relationship dont date him he isnt excusive with him. I am terribly handsome (as you can see), post witty and wicked things in the forums and have had maybe all of ten women contact me in the last... Hell, marriages have broken up over spouses becoming addicted to something online.He's simply not trustworthy.charlie_girl_2 on 2/16/2012 1221 PMSubject: Men who are addicted to internet dating sites Message: carefree25 DON'T BE GIVING ANOTHER PERSON'S SCREEN NAME INFO OR YOU WILL BE EXITED STAGE LEFT RIGHT OUT OF HERE! He's always on the internet looking for the next woman he can hurt. And kids are forgetting everything else but their online "friends" . I know for myself , as soon as I feel something for someone in real life , I lose all interest in being on dating sites .I went on a vacation with no internet and I didnt even think of it. n You have been dating him for a yr and he is still on dating sites. and it really saddens me that people will advise someone like yourself asking a legitimate question with answers from their own experiences. and men seem to rarely ask questions in a forum about their girls. AKA,[in way to much baggage would be a good example]. And if that is true,will she will blame men in the way it is ,cuz it is for her too ?If it was a cell phone or facebook addiction thats a whole different thing than internet dating sites. I assume he hasnt met the right girl yet or is just a serial dater. If i was dating a man and in a month he wasnt off the sites i would have dumped him. And are there any wimins who pick mens for just of it, who are blankness??????I'm not opposed to online dating, its just secondary to a real first connection, thats all.
Here are 17 warning signs that you're addicted to the thrill of the digital chase. When filling out the "hobbies and interests" part of your online dating profile, you can't think of anything to write. Personally I think all people want to be good and I live life believing it. expose the part of you that you are not concerned about losing. If you are worried about losing you lack confidence and you will always lose. It's a real addiction, and I believe it is here to stay. It sounds like he cares more about being a net whore than being with you. A thing to google might be the role of dopamine in social media.1 complaint from men was lack of sex in the marriage," Mileham said."Many of them said their wife was so involved in childrearing that she wasn't interested in having sex." Because there is no touching involved in online chat conversations, married people often rationalize their behavior as harmless fun, Mileham said."Never before has the dating world been so handy for married men and women looking for a fling," said Beatriz Avila Mileham, who conducted the research for her doctoral dissertation in counselor education at UF.