What’s even harder is handling disappointment and trying to analyze what you did wrong in the process. If you’ve had enough of being puzzled over what you’ve done wrong, it’s good to take a few steps back and try to see the whole picture as objectively as possible.
Just show him that you’re a high-value woman with a lot of options and he’ll pursue YOU. S., I teach women how to understand and bring out the best in their men rather than suffer through their worst.
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During this early relationship phase, most guys are just smelling the flowers and trying to decide which one to pick or IF he wants to pick one.
Just because he has shown interest in you does not mean that he has forgotten about all the other women in his life.
If he begins to feel genuine affection for you, he may indeed delete his little black book, but it could take a while.
Thinking that he has immediately given up all his options is naive.In fact, there’s something in the psyche of nearly every man that the whole notion of freedom just stirs his soul and calls out the hero within.Make no mistake – men will die for it – so don’t think he’ll easily give it away.Here’s the problem: Simply put, men and women have two of their highest and deepest needs in absolute, total and direct conflict.As a result, it creates a real disconnect from the very beginning stages of their relationship..exact time when their relationship lacks the stability or trust to compensate for the challenges. The long-term effect of this one mistake often causes women to stack disappointment and heartbreak until eventually they begin to demonize men, or even worse, question their own value and worth.And these are just a few of the places where singles are hedging their love bets!