Rough Treatment “The Loser” will hurt you on purpose.
Psychologists usually treat the victims of “The Loser”, women or men who arrive at the office severely depressed with their self-confidence and self-esteem totally destroyed.
The following list is an attempt to outline the characteristics of “The Loser” and provide a manner in which women and men can identify potentially damaging relationships before they are themselves severely damaged emotionally or even physically.
” You may be so overwhelmed by this display of instant attraction, instant commitment, and instant planning for the future that you’ll miss the major point – it doesn’t make sense!!
Normal, healthy individuals require a long process to develop a relationship because there is so much at stake.
Healthy individuals will wait for a lot of information before offering a commitment – not three weeks.
It’s true that we can become infatuated with others quickly – but not make such unrealistic promises and have the future planned after three dates.They can turn what is supposed to be a loving, supporting, and understanding relationship into the “fatal attraction” often described in movies.There are a variety of “bad choices” that may be encountered each week – most of which are easily to identify and avoid.Both you and the date are guarded, trying to obtain information about the other as much as possible without seeming like a police detective.Romantic relationships can be wonderful with the right person.These are characteristics that they accept simply as the way they are and not a problem or psychological difficulty.