Maybe its because I blocked their bots who kept sending requests....
To me Oasis wasn't free, because my time is valuable, and I'd rather spend it meeting someone over coffee at a cafe than waste my time reading thru useless messages.
I just discovered Oasis and ended up here while searching around for what people have been saying about it.
if you like those sorts of people, then internet dating may be for you. I'm getting out into the real world where I can avoid the false advertising of artifical made-up dolls with a woman who can't stand up without a team of Party-officials (friends) telling her what to do every step of the way.
Where are you my taller, older green-eyed lass with black hair? strange women on there, even the ones who Id consider 5s and 6s show no love lolol....
Those kids aren't willing to step out of their comfort zone to initiate contact.
I've noticed over the past years there has been an influx of fake nails and dolls with fake hair, lips and other artifical aesthetics who want the world handed to them on a silver platter...
Oasis active is much better than most, especially for a free site.
It suffer's major problems because of the commonality of the people frequenting the site.
In the three or so months I was on there, of the 30 people I chatted to, not one left because they found a partner.
One female I spoke to would receive 30 requests for contact on an average Saturday night.
One must always, always, be alert for scams, fakers and floosies (unless you like that sort of thing) whether in real life or on the net.