When you date in high school, you learn how to date.
I had previously talked to her about my crush and my decision not to date in high school. “I just have no idea I shouldn’t date in high school anymore. I shouldn’t stick with something that I said I’d do when I was 14 if I don’t know the reasons, right? She and I then grabbed a piece of paper and brainstormed all the pros and cons of dating in high school.I still have that list, and today I’m sharing it with you.Especially considering how the guy I liked was super busy too.If the guy in question was the right guy for me, then it wouldn’t matter whether or not we dated in high school. No need to stress about if he’s “the one” or not when in high school.In India, everyone within 10 years of a girl's age is a big brother, and anything after that threshold is a surrogate father.
Because everyone these days has no sence of sobriety and is an excellent judge of character, these brothers and fathers fancy themselves the most excellent examples of civility at the very apex of an upstanding society, so to speak.I think my reasoning back then was that I knew dating should help me find who I’m to marry and I knew I was too young to get married anytime soon.That, and I was still terrified to talk to boys anywho.It doesnt say that all women need watch dogs around them.When I was 14, I chose not to date until I had graduated high school. In fact Indians are so out of touch with Indian culture that even the best efforts to energise them, surprisingly enough through the daily episodes of Mahabharat on Star Plus (to say the least), are futile.