My children are suffering but the court system doesn't care about their well being.
Now my daughter has been diagnosed with a very serious diesase that is life threatening with long term treatment.
So when I worked hard and got a salary rise recently, my child support was just reduced.
He's emotionally abusive and at times physically abusive to them.I've been to court several times trying to get things changed but no one will listen!All I've found is heartless money chasers who don't care! I didn't want to go into legal battles with him as I knew there will be no winning him in court.I was married to a narcissist and that eroded my personality. So I agreed to a very unfavorable settlement where he stayed with the house, completely and only pays me 400$ a month for two children we have jn shared custody. But I can't move from here to a more affordable one because I need to live close to him and his house.Kids play sports it's too much money and to time consuming. We have been separated for 4 months and nothing seems to be changed.
Still fusses about my son (his step son) bc he plays so much Baseball. Parenting was hard I did it all on my own, I am learning to do different now but still hard when he still harps on me everyday that its all my fault.Narcissism is a spectrum disorder that ranges from a low level of traits to the full-blown narcissistic personality disorder. My husband has many narcissistic traits but I'm not sure he's a full-blown narcissist.It is normal to have some low level traits, but if a person has more and more along the spectrum it causes problems for them in relationships and parenting. His mother is extremely narcissistic and I think he just doesn't know any other way to be.He was abusive to me and had a sudden temper so I was afraid to leave my son alone with him. The day I first escaped I was a terrified self-cutting abused woman who swore no man would ever treat me that way.He went for full visitation and I was told there was nothing I could do to black it even though I had proof that he exposed my 9-yr. After the divorce I tried to keep my distance from him because my counselor said he was not a safe person for me to be around. I told him numerous times that I felt like I was his "maid and whore." As long as the house was clean, dinner on time, and sex anytime he wanted, he was somewhat happy. The second time I got away I was a PTSD drinking smoking mess.Why does another person choose a 'narcissist' in the first place? He is shady about things and acts like a recluse says he hates people and he is better and more talented then others.