If her behavior is not consistent with her words, you should be hesitant to move forward in the relationship. (Most Colombian women are sensitive, yet at the same time strong. When was the last time you cried and what caused you to cry? Learning English should be her desire and not an obligation you have to push or a sacrifice she needs to make. What was the last book you read and what was it about? Would you rather read a book, magazine, or newspaper? If the pen is yellow, it’s, Honey I know your favorite color is lavender, but this is the closes color they had to lavender. All that matters is that you know, not the feebleness of your effort.) How would you characterize your family life while growing up? What is your relationship with your parents like now? (A woman with strong family values will not enter into a marriage on false pretenses.) Are you a "morning person" or a "night person? You will know if she is or isn’t by the amount of time she spends with you and to what extent she shows and shares you with her family and friends.It is important that you feel comfortable that there is long-term compatibility before love develops. (A woman with many male "friends" would require more scrutiny.) Have you ever had a friend who was disloyal to you? When was the last time you told a lie and how did you feel afterwards? What bad habits do you expect to overcome in the next twelve months? It’s feminist propaganda that says these women are easily exploited. You should pay attention to her outlook and progress in learning. What are some of the good and bad parts of your parent’s marriage? Was there a positive male role model during your childhood? What are your favorite family and holiday traditions? What did people tease you about while you were growing up? Colombian men are very aggressive in seeking women.We suggest that you do not make a commitment to marriage until after a second visit. What is your perception of the United States (the good and the bad)? Where and what did you think of the place you visited? If you were to leave Colombia and marry in the United States, how frequently and for how long would you expect to visit Colombia? Requests to meet her parents early should be viewed with suspicion.) What is the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you? (Most Colombians do not know how to drive.) If you could relive and or alter one incident in your life, what would it be? If you could live one year of your life all over again without changing a thing, what year would you choose? How do you feel when you are criticized and what justifies criticism? There will also be perceived disagreements that in reality are due to misunderstandings in language. When it comes to healthy eating and safe food preparation, most Hispanic women have much to learn. Can you think of any reason to lie to your partner?
It’s very difficult during the early dating stages to determine if a particular woman will be a six-month girlfriend, a three-year wife, or a lifetime wife.
To find a good wife will take comprehensive knowledge of the woman you are dating, focused attention to your objective, alert observation skills, and pinpoint recognition of any potential attributes, signs, or behavior that could derail the relationship in the future, and even then there is no guarantee.
We provide the women with similar questions, but Hispanics are not an inquisitive culture, and you will get less inquiry from them. For many Colombian women, studying is not the means to pursuing a professional career, the career is studying.) Do you have a curiosity for learning? Almost all the Hispanic women will express a desire to learn. What is your favorite color, number, flower, animal, scent, outfit, song, music group, dance, movie, actor, book, quote, musical instrument, car, dessert, drink, game, hobby, sport, holiday, Christmas memory, gift, nightclub, restaurant, place, thing to do, etc.? (Knowing the answers to these questions is mostly sentimental. Having the status of divorced is not desired and at one time divorces were more difficult to attain and so many couples would simply separate and start another family even though they were legally married to someone else.) Were your parents demonstrably affectionate with you or one another? What kind of relationship do you have with your siblings? What were the major medical events for your family? Most of the women in Latin America do not have regular check-ups or a clear understanding of the causes of illnesses, and therefore they have more medical problems. Can you give me a recent example of a rise and a fall in your mood? These boyfriends could be ex-boyfriends, male friends they are having sex with, a boss, married men, men that don’t want a commitment, or men she doesn’t want to commit to.
The learning and questions should be ongoing, and her actions should coincide with her answers. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing? Can you tell me an example of this curiosity at work? You should pay for lessons, state your expectations, and determine if she can contribute transportation, attend lessons during holidays (a frequent occurrence in Colombia), and be on time. Many of us have been in the situation, or maybe just me, where our ignorance of what our girl likes is used against us. She’s right, how could I possibly love her without knowing this? So know it, and when you give her a nice lavender pen, it’s because, Honey, I knew your favorite color was lavender. Did your family have any struggles as you were growing up? Were you ever sexually, emotionally, or verbally abused? They may believe they got sick because it rained or that watering the garden after ironing caused an illness or that entering an air-conditioned room after being outside on a hot day made them sick. Do either one of you have any habits or tendencies regarding health that should be discussed (for example, smoking, excessive dieting or weight, drug intake, or lack of exercise)? It is probably best to operate under the assumption that she may be having some type of relationship.
Unless you want to make many trips to Colombia to find a wife, it is best to determine who fits the criteria you have for a wife by asking the appropriate questions early and often.
Only when both the husband and the wife have true compatibility and love will a marriage prosper and last. The sample questions we provide below along with your own follow-up questions (why, when, where, who etc.) will help reveal your compatibility with potential partners.
Share pictures and aspects of your life and hometown.
For your one-on-one dates, have mentally prepared questions to learn who shares your interests and values and complements you goals and needs.
One will never know what difficult situations a relationship may face and how couples may change over time.
A long-distance, mixed-cultured relationship creates its own challenges.
You want your date to see you as a fun suitor and not as a dry interviewer. When you are sick and feeling poorly, do you like to be alone or do you like to be pampered and have someone close to your side most of the time? (I have only seen a few women particular about a man’s religion; most Hispanic women are flexible in this regard. Do you feel I should have a say in how this money is spent?