She begins to wonder what other things in their relationship he has lied about.
In addition, she often no longer sees him as a good role model for their children. For many women, their husbands’ use of pornography is deeply traumatizing.
Because pornography depicts men sexually exploiting women, a wife might also end up feeling used in her sexual relationship with her husband.Many young wives don’t object to their husbands viewing pornography because they know they can compete with the young women in porn. Naturally, wives get older, but the women in porn stay young.While they wished they never had to go through their ordeal, they could see how God was using it to give them the marriage they had always wanted and the marriage He wanted for them.Para usar todas las funciones del sitio, necesitas permitir la visualización de contenido Flash en tu navegador.Whenever I work with a couple struggling with the effects of pornography, there are three kinds of counseling I offer: Many couples claim they simply want to go back to the way things were before their marriage was damaged by pornography. Because pornography use and its root causes often predate the marriage, one or both spouses probably were not healthy when they entered the marriage.
The goal of counseling is to help them work on individual and marital healing so that they can create a healthy and happy marriage.
He is giving away something that belongs to his wife.
This is no different than having an extramarital affair.
Most wives feel they have an open and honest relationship with their husbands.
They believe they can share anything with each other and they have a healthy intimacy.
While porn harms in many ways, here are three particular ways pornography is devastating your wife : For them, pornography isn’t simply “images on a screen.” They are other women. When a man chooses to spend time with pornography, he is choosing to spend time with other women.